New Love vs. Old Love

Monica's new video premiered yesterday and left fans with a difficult decision. Should Monica chose to be with her old love or stick with her new love? The debate has been raging on and we've opened up a thread in the message boards for you to air out your thoughts.

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Comments (11)

I know that the votes are going to be split but in reality her old love has been in prison for 12 years meaning he only knows the outside world 12 years ago. There are alot of people who bounce back but you have to look at it as, she loved him when she was 12 years younger. Within 12 years a person change. She is thinking about him and the things she loved of the past but she has to think about the woman she has become and if her old love will fit into the life she is living now. Yeah that was her love but if he loved her like he said he did, he would not have done whatever he did to land him in prison for 12 years. When you are with someone the things you do affect the both of you and whatever he did was a selfish act. If this was real I would say pray on it because no other person can tell you better which way to go but God. Sometimes people say follow your heart but your heart isn't always the one talking to you its other lustful things in the mind. Since this is not real and the fans are choosing I would say go with your new love. Apparently he is what you love at the time because you were about to marry him. Going back to your old love is taking chances because you don't know how things will be now but you do know that you are happy with the new love now. Don't base your decisions on the what could have beens because they don't always turn out the way we want or dream. The past is exactly that, the past so leave it there. The present is a gift that's why were call it "present". Be blessed. Love you Monica and keep doing you. You are definately a blessing and inspiration to alot of us!!

I believe you should follow you heart n be with the OLD LOVE beacause even tho he told you dont wait for him n still came back for you but your NEW LOVE is also a good person n if yall have a stronger bond then stick to it the best thing to do is follow your heart n leave it in god hands to steer you down the right path......I LOVE YOUR MUSIC N KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK

I love the video! Now i'm confused about who. I feel that in the video it was still a connection with the old love. They say true love never dies it will always come back! Thats what he did he came back. I feel also if she was so in love with the new love the old love wouldn't even phase her. In reality she wanted the old love HE told her to move on, She wanted to wait for him. So is it even fair to the new love to continue to live in the shadow of the old love? so if her heart is still with the old love i say go for it!

Just wanted to say tht even though ppl were complaining about JRecords taking so long to release the video, it seems tht we as fans need to be more patient because everything this era they are doing right so far!!!!!!! Love this strategy and how the fans hve been able to be involved.

I think it should be the new love because if it wasn't worth waiting for the first time it won't be worth it the second time

I think it should be the new love because if it wasn't worth waiting for the first time it won't be worth it the second time

First of all, Maino has been there from the very beginning. Without him all of the success in which she gained probably wouldn't have existed in the first place. All these people who comment only talk about the physical appearance; tattoos, and because he's a NBA player. At the end of the day all of those things don't matter. OLD LOVE FOR SURE!!!!

I choose OldLuv for ya Monica but I hope u choose NewLuv in real life with Mr. Shannon Brown cause I heard about how he was crushing on u all through the video. Yall 2 makes a cute couple!

Monica's new single speaks to my current situation. I have not seen the video yet, I hope we both make the right decision.